Day-to-Day Doings I read that somewhere. I wrote it down, and then I read it.
Saturday, May 31
Another Saturday Night...
Home, relaxing, enjoying the night. I was hoping to make it down to NJ for the mini-bash this weekend, but between work, new kitty and dog-sitting duties starting tomorrow night, I figured it wasn't the best idea. I like that bash though, it's small, relaxing, fun... good thing to check out if you're in the area around the time.
The kitty is adjusting, slowly for sure... but she's making a little progress. She now feels comfy slowly trotting around the house, but still won't directly approach me. She got really close to me the other day, but when I moved a little to look down at her, she scurried away. I think she'll keep making strides as the weeks go by. I gave her a catnip mouse the other day, and it's moved up and down the stairway, so I think she's been checking it out. Good sign. :)
Okay, she's upstairs meowing for no reason... I should probably go check on her. Bye for now!
Well, there is a new cat in town, and her name is Darla. Yes, Darla-kitty arrived here at home on Friday morning, and we've been going through a period of adjustment ever since. I expect it's going to take quite a while for her to be comfy here.
She's 6 years old, and cute as can be (she's a seal colorpoint ragdoll, in case anyone knows what that is). She's a sweetie, and loves snuggles and stuff, but she's not quite sure about the fat girl who keeps trying to make friends. She's also a bit unsure about this new home, lots of open space for her to avoid. She's got a few favorite spots under tables, and that seems as far as she's willing to go.
She's started eating and drinking, so that's good. :) This morning I even caught her in the little bed I bought for her, I took that as a good sign. Hopefully she'll warm up to me in time and start feeling comfy approaching me. Right now I feel like the evil overlord holding the kitty princess hostage. :(
Hopefully when she's a bit more at home, I can get a couple of pictures to share.
Ahmet Zappa... digs big chicks? I have no idea, but he made a "comment" to a girl on Star Search tonight about going home with him, and she is a BIG girl. She's also talented and sexy, so who knows the motivation, but it gave me a nice little twinge all the same. :) He's not my usual type, but he's just wacked out enough to do something for me.
Snack reviews: I've tried a few new snacks, and figured I'd share my feelings. Baked Doritos: tried the cool ranch; not bad, dry and sort of "chalky" for lack of a better word, but they grow on you and they're not bad after a while. Uh-Oh Oreos: Eh, don't waste your time. They're ok, but nothing you can't get in other cookies if that's what you like. I'm not really a big fan of Oreo's anyway, so I may not be the best judge of these. Quaker Quakes: nacho cheese variety. I'm really not loving the flavor of their nacho, but they come in cheddar and BBQ, so I might try again with another flavor. They're basically like round corn puffs (Jax, Cheetos), but they're baked. They're ok, but have to refine the flavor choices.
Okay, that was stupid, but I wasted time and money finding out... maybe it will help you guys. :)
I just wrote this (in like 3 mins, please excuse the rough edges) for a friend who's putting together the NEC-NAAFA newsletter. She asked for a little blurb on what it's like being a BBW or FA, so this is what I sent her. Thought it was worth throwing up here, especially since none of you will be seeing the newsletter. :)
____ I take up space. I used to dread that idea. To be obtrusive, to be a stand out. I don't sneak into rooms, I command most of them. How terrible, I thought. As time passed, and a new vision of myself emerged, the things I once cowered from became a uniqueness to embrace.
I take up space. I stand out. I command a room. If I am going to do these things no matter what, why not do them with my chins up, a sparkle in my eyes and a broad smile to greet the people who turn to take a look? I should meet their gazes with one of confidence and comfort in who I am, and approach them with purpose in my stride. Time has taught me that. Time has taught me that you can alter mass opinions one encounter at a time. Is my positive attitiude lost on some? Of course, but for those not open to a friendly face and confident stance, there are bigger issues at hand than whether they can offer a smile back to this happy, fat girl. _______
