Day-to-Day Doings I read that somewhere. I wrote it down, and then I read it.
Wednesday, January 29
Meow II and Jimmy Kimmel.
Well, update on the kitty goes like this. They would rather NOT have a cat in the unit, but if I write a letter accepting responsibilty, etc... then it will probably be ok. I wrote the letter, but I'm a bit on the fence about since it seems they really aren't too nuts about the idea. I don't know, I guess we'll see. I just don't want to do something that makes me look like a problem tenant, because I really enjoy living where I do. Time will tell.
Jimmy Kimmel Live. I was going to write something on Sunday night, after the first show, but I had to give it more time... in case Sunday was a fluke. THIS SHOW IS FUNNY. I was not a fan of his going in... I have nothing against him, but certainly wasn't looking forward to his show as a fan. I sort of "ended up" watching it Sunday and I laughed through the whole thing (which is always so odd when you're alone and you catch yourself laughing out loud).
One thing that has added to this week is co-host Snoop Dogg. These two are so funny, I think he should be a permanent part of the show. I guess there will be a new guest host every week. I can only hope the future co-hosts are as well suited to the job.
Sunday night, the first show... George Clooney came out with a nice bottle vodka, 3 glasses and they had drinks and chatted it up. Of course they found out later (for next show) that you actually can't do that on TV. I won't bother to go through anything, because I don't think it will translate well, but check it out for a little bit if you get a chance. I guess what I like is that it's a fresh feeling for late night. Very little structure, sort of fly by the seat of your pants interviewing... it's working for me so far.
Yeah, having a website with a fair amount of traffic puts you in this really weird position at times of being advisor to people. I don't have all the answers... barely have them for myself. But you know, people ask you things. You wouldn't believe some of them. Well I got one today, and I HAD to share. Let this be a warning, I WILL tell you what I think. :)
The email I received: You don't know me & this is not a e-mail trying to sell something. I would like to ask you your advice and opinion on a decision I have to make. I am writing to you because who better to ask but a stranger that would just be able to give advice on the facts. I am for real, let me tell you about my situation and any help you could give me is very much appreciated. I live in NYC & 23 yrs old. I moved out of my parents house 2 years ago because they are racist & I have a black girlfriend- Im Italian. We got an apartment together & found out she is bisexual which is fine but I have since fallen out of love with her for a many number of reasons. I will tell you a few-she has talked about killing herself since her moms passing & her family causes her stress that she can't deal with & she does not keep clean down there, also I love going down on a woman for hours, I love it even better than sex but I can't cause she is not clean & she will not return the favor. I want someone that I get along with & that loves what I love to do. I have talked with her & she says too bad. The real problem is she got me fired from my job, walked in my store and cursed & punched my boss out. so now I have no job & she says now you aint going no where, you have to depend on me. My parents and my sister are moving to Florida in about 1 year and I have the opportunity to go with them, they say I can stay with them free until I get in my feet, find work & find an apartment. Should I go? another thing is I live with my psycho girlfriend until July cause that's when the lease is up. Should I save money until my parents leave then just take that money & hop on a plane? Im a big guy(chubby) & I have confidence in myself, she is a small BBW and she says she hates herself. The things I wonder are can I start over in Florida? Can I make a living? Are places Hiring? Does the state have the women im attracted to-Thick Chubby, women with curves? Your advice if you can is appreciated.
Okay... so, this is my response: First, let me say that I think writing to a random stranger about something so personal and important is completely weird. I don't want to be contacted again about this or any other situation that arrises in your life. I'm not a counselor, I have no training, I don't even know you. For all I know you are the weird one, or the one with problems.
With that said, I will comment briefly. No one got you fired from your job. Don't blame the things that happen to you on the actions of others. If her coming in there got you in trouble, then it's YOU having her in your life that caused problems... that is your doing, not hers. You need to be in control of circumstances around you, and when bad things happen, well... shit happens. That's life. You can't go placing the blame on other people - no matter how messed up they might be. Take control.
As for moving. Yes, of course move. I don't know why it would even be a question unless you are someone who has a secret place inside that loves being miserable and stuck in a situation that sucks from one end to the other. Any normal, sane person would have left there a long time ago.... so seize the opportunity being put in front of you and get out. It should not even be a thought in your head. Start a new life... any life, somewhere, anywhere.
As for girls, there are fat girls everywhere... get over it. Grow up, find a new happiness and get your shit together.
You probably feel like you asked the wrong random stranger now, as my advice is a bit harsh... but your letter made me feel no sympathy, I basically just wanted to slap you in the side of the head for being such a moron until now. GET OUT, GET A NEW LIFE. ________________________
Wel that's that... just thought I'd share. :) Glamorous life, eh? LOL
Hmm, could there be a kitty in my future?? I will find out in a day or so I think.
Some of you may know, I had a kitty for 10 years, but I had to have her put to sleep on September 7th, 2001 (man, that was a really sad week for me, all in all.) After she was put down, I moved to a nice new place, and there is a "no pet" clause in my lease.
Well, I sort of figured once I was here a while (coming up on a year) and they knew I was responsible, etc... that I'd give it a shot and ask. I got a "I don't "think" it will be a problem, but I'll ask (him, the unit owner) and let you know."
That was enough to get my wheels turning. I love animals, dogs and cats especially. I grew up with dogs (yes, plural, up to 4 at a time) so I guess they are my roots, but when I had my own place I got a cat. It just wasn't practical to have a dog with my schedule, in a small apartment, etc. Thank goodness growing up with them taught me the work involved. Soooo, the kitty was great... indoor, happy, lap cat. I miss her quite a bit.
Yup. You heard me right. I hit Lane Bryant the other day, and they're having a "bin" sale on underwear (actually they're having a HUGE sale, shirts for 9.99!! but most of the stuff there doesn't fit me unless it's super stretchy... and bottoms are OUT of the question). So, underwear that is normally 14.50 a pair, are 4.99 a pair.
Now, I know if you're a super big chick like me, you're saying "nice AnnMarie, but they don't fit...". But WAIT! I bought some that are meshy material, with lace up each side of the front and attached with two elastics on each side, open sides. They're cute/sexy... and run REALLY big. I can put them on and pull them out with like 6 extra inches on each side. So really, if you can find them, pick them up if you're in the market for some sexy undies. Although... mine will be stored in mothballs until such time as they become useful in my life once again. ;)
Okay, that was my fashion tip for the week/month, etc... hope some of you are able to take advantage. Ohh, plus, get the 25 off $75 purchase coupon... that came in handy!!
Sorry guys, this was all of NO use to you (although you could share it with girlfriends and impress them! :)
Okay, it wasn't really a fight, it was more of a "Hey, Snowbank, I'm sliding and the car isn't stopping.... and, well, if I keep going, I'm probably going to hit a car who can't see me coming onto this road. Soooo, I was thinking, I'd drive into YOU, you'd stop me, then I'd figure out how to get going after that. Sound good?" And the snowbank said "Okay, deal." So I drove into it and everyone lived happily ever after.
There is nothing worse than the feeling of a car that won't stop. even if you're not going that fast, and it's just sort of gliding along, that out-of-control-hunk-of-metal feeling is really weird.
So, I finally got shoes for winter. Now, I know that for many of you that may seem a routine function of life, but for me, anything that involves shoes is a major production. My feet are FAT. Fat and wide, and puffy. It's very, very, very hard for me to find any shoes that fit. I usually just wear sneakers, because I can pretty much always get a pair that fit. But my slip on summer sneakers were just not cutting it in all this snow, I almost broke my neck more than once. So I finally found a pair of Skechers (for men) that fit pretty well, and they keep me standing up in the ice and snow... a very good thing! :) Happy feet for me!
I also bought this sweatshirt, which my mother told me today makes me look 3 times bigger than I am... LOL... which is true. It's HUGE. It's a men's 6x, but it's way bigger than that, hangs down to my knees, and doesn't even come close to touching me. I am actually planning to wash and DRY it. This is big, nothing I own that can shrink gets dried, NOTHING. So, that gives you some idea of how big this thing is.
I bought yummy food so I'm going to make myself a good dinner tonight... either shepherd's pie, or maybe some creamed chicken over rice. I haven't decided which yet. But it's going to be good, my mouth is already watering. MMmmmmmm, home cooking.
Yup, it's good ol' 2003. This past year has really flown for me. I did a lot of loafing (being unemployed for the better part of the year), did quite a bit of traveling (Atlanta twice, Vegas for 9 days). I wish I'd been able to get back out west sometime this fall, but it just didn't work out. I'm hoping maybe I can make it happen sometime before summer. :)
So, I put up no picture of the week last Thursday, and I only had two comments about it being missing... so apparently it went unnoticed. Which is good, gave me a little sense of freedom from the update. I will update later tonight, just have to track down a picture. I figured I might have some from the past few days (the NY's event I we ran), but I didn't really get any.
Plans for the weekend... lots of work to get done, would LOVE to get the Xmas tree taken down (but we'll see, that might be ambitious). It's going to snow here again tomorrow night, and through to Saturday. It's quite a winter wonderland here in the northeast... some kind of rain/snow/ice situation every few days it seems. It's going to be a major pain if it keeps up, but since I'm working from home, it's sort of nice to look out and know I don't have to get out and about it in. :)
I'm off. I hope you all have a safe, and happy new year. And forget about resolutions, just choose ONE thing that you want to do, and do it. Go skydiving, kiss a stranger, tell someone how you REALLY feel (hopefully only good things :). Do something that makes you feel good. Live a little, we deserve it.
